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Coping with the lockdown 2021
Mom, wife, sister, friend, employee, student, homemaker, teacher and caregiver all at the same time all equally demanding attention. 2020 had been exhausting for women and a few men too. After reflecting on the year, I did some thinking on what worked and what didn’t work in trying to manage the up’s and down’s. Here are some of the things I will be doing this year, which have served me and my family well.
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Sacred sexuality
Stop wasting time looking for the perfect solution in sex, instead work on creating the perfect love.
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Cupping / Hijama Insights – Kerry Abdullah
A light insight to minders day ‘traditional healing.’ From trained Cupping/Hijama therapist Kerry Leigh Abdullah based in Zimbabwe.
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Gratitude in 2021 – Nabeelah Menk
Featured guest post from a lovely follower Nabeelah Menk. She shares her gratitude journey with us through all the struggles she has faced over the past few years and how she has learnt to over come it.
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How I got rid of the pacifier
I think many people have a stigma placed around the use of a pacifier or as we call them here in Africa, ‘dummies’. So on this post I wanted to share how we transitioned off the dummies for my kids.
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Working from home with kids.
Trying to balance work whether you are employed, self employed, on an entrepreneurial journey, an influencer or if I am being truthful just being a stay at home mom as your career is a job in itself, is a challenging just as any job out there too.
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Something I did not expect as a first time mom
Looking back on this first time experience, something was amiss and it was nothing the pregnancy or becoming a mother books try to or actually teach you. It was….
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Marriage advice – part 2
The secret to a happy marriage? There is no specific trick or exact recipe for it, because each couple and relationship is very different from couple to couple. There is a guideline I would say to what makes them work and in this new post we will be going through these guidelines that can be followed to suit your relationship and keep your marriage and relationship blossoming.
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It is OK to cut toxic people out
Become strong enough to say “No, it is OK to cut toxic people off”.
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Hygiene tips for women
Being a woman is hard. We deal with many various things on a daily basis from home, work and kids. So in this video I am going to chat about some hygiene tips for woman.
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Why you should cut your hair short once in your life
Here are a few reasons why you should chop your locks off once in your life. Whether a buzz cut or a short pixie.
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The bubble life – COVID19 – Anonymous share
The simplistic talk of a normal person, a father, a husband, a son, and brother. I Might come across as brass but I feel voice your opinion, and you shall be heard. Something I teach my kids who now live in a world that is nearly abnormal.
As the Father of my children needing to know what their schedules were like for school and worrying about my son making the cricket team and the soccer team for his school, interested in listening to my daughter talk about her day and her very trivial 8 year old girl quarrels of Barbies and Pocket Polly.
WOW was that normal?
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Terrible twos – My toddler
Well from what I have read on its basically a normal (I laugh when I read normal because I feel like its the craziest and most patience testing time I have had to endure in all the years with all my kids combined, normal yeah right, abnormal for me lol)
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Marriage advice – Part 1
One thing I will always advise people I know who are in the stages of getting married or are even with their partner already, who ask for my advice is …
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Gender based violence. Anonymous submission.
Anonymous submission alert! Gender-based violence is an inequality to mainly the female gender and it continues to be one of the most notable human rights violations within all societies around the world.
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Easy D.I.Y Facemasks
With more than enough time on my hands I want to share a few face masks that you can make at home and that are affordable. You probably have most of the ingredients in your pantry too!
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Thoughts on turning 30
I am turning the big 3-0 next month and so far, I have ticked the boxes of marriage and kids the socieltel boxes of “life”. I feel like turning 30 is a scary thing because your no more in that young carefree 20’s zone.
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DUAS TO READ AND LEARN
As we entered into Ramadan 2020 I wanted to share a post that can help all of us learn a few short duas that will help us increase our blessings in this beautiful month. Like and share with your friends and family and remember me and everyone in your duas. Have a blessed ramadan 2020!
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Motherhood and faith
We are the glue that holds all the puzzle pieces together, pulling each unit closer when it loosens or tends to move away from the folds. In-between trying to raise our children to be good people and Muslims we are stuck between finding time for ourselves, housework, cooking and our faith too.
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Skincare mistakes (and how to fix them)
This is not a blog post on the best skincare routine out there but rather a post on the most common over looked skincare mistakes your making on a daily basis. Let’s get that glowy skin!
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Conversations you need to have with your partner
If you thought of marriage being a bed of roses and filled with only happiness, then you might want to re-think it. Marriage is like a thousand different things all at once. It takes hard work to make a marriage work ecspecially in the times we live in. There is good and bad, happiness and sadness, comfort and worry and it can all happen even at the same time!
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Things to do after intimacy?
Experts suggest that couples who maintain physical contact after being intimate creates a bond between the couple even as the day continues and keeps the intimacy between couples strong.
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Interview – Rachel Kolisi
Rachel is a working mom but she balances her career and home life with such grace. We caught up with her to ask her a bit about herself and her family. Read more
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Fehmz – Creator and founder of FEHMZ Mocktails.
Hi Fehmz, thank you for sharing your time with us here @mom-scaping. 1. First question, how did motherhood change you? And are you planning on expanding your family? Motherhood has been the hardest job I have ever applied for, and the hardest job to get as well because it took us a few years before…
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